but their relationships stink. That s a technical term, by the way. And that s not wealth, it really isn t.
;但是他們的(家庭)關係很糟.;順便說一下,"糟"是一個技術性的術語.;這不是富足,真的不是.
You know, you can go after the money and you might get rich,
;你可以去追求金錢,變得很有錢,
but it doesn t guarantee you ll be wealthy.
;但有錢並不會保證你會"富足".
I m not suggesting that money isn t a part of wealth, it absolutely is but it s only a part
;我不是說金錢不是富足的一部分,它確實是..;但只是一部分.
And then I meet a lot of people who are "spiritual",
;我還認識一些人,他們是"精神型"的,(他把引號讀為quota)
but they re sick and broke all the time. That s not wealth either.
;但他們總是有病並且貧窮.;這也不是富足.
Life is meant to be abundant in all areas.
;生活意味著在各個方面都應當富足.
Many people in Western culture are striving for success.
;許多西方文化環境下的人都非常努力地為成功而奮鬥
They wanna have a bigger home, they want their business to work, they want all of these things.
;他們想要更大的房子,他們想為自己的事業而工作,;他們想要所有這些東西.
But what I found in my research is that having those things
;但我在我的研究中發現,擁有這些東西
certainly doesn t guarantee what we really want, which is happiness.
;並不能保證給我們真正所想要的,也就是---幸福.
And that s when all those outer things come.
;外界的東西應該從幸福而來.
They don t come from going after them first to get happiness - it s backwards.
;不應該先去追求外界的物質來獲得幸福 - 這個順序顛倒了.
You go for the sense of inner joy, of inner peace, of inner vision first
;你應該先追求內在喜悅的感覺,追求內在的和平,內在的景象
and then all the other things from the outside appear. The secret means for me actually that
;然後外界的東西會出現到你面前.;這個秘密對我來說實際上意味著
we are creators of our Universe.
;我們是宇宙的創造者.
And that every wish of what we want to create will manifest in our life.
;我們的每一個願望都會在我們的生活中實現.
Therefore, it s very important what you wish, what your thoughts are, what your feelings are
;因此,我們的願望是什麼,我們想什麼,我們感覺是什麼,這些非常重要,
because it will manifest. Now, one day I went into somebody s home
;因為它們將成為現實.;有一天,我到某人的辦公室
and he was art director of a very famous film producer.
;他是一個著名電影製片人的藝術導演.
And in every corner he had this beautiful image of a woman,
;在房間的每一個角落,他都放了一個美麗女人的畫像,
a naked woman dressed with the fabric kind of doing this, kind of saying,
;一個裹著絲質布料的裸體女人,做著這樣的姿勢,好像在說,
"I don t look at you, I don t see you"
;"我不想看你,我看不到你"
And I said, "I think you have trouble in your romance." "Are you a clairvoyant or something?"
;於是我說,"我認為你的個人感情方面有問題".;"難道你是千里眼?"
"No, but look, in seven places you have exactly that woman."
;"不是,但你看,你在各處都放有這個女人的畫像"
"But I love that kind of painting. I painted it myself." "That s even worse", I said,
;"但我喜歡這樣的畫像.這是我自己畫的.";"那更糟糕",我說
"because you put all your creation and your creativity in it."
;"因為你投入了自己的想像力和創造力".
Now, this is a gorgeous looking man, he has all these actresses around him
;你看,這是一個外表英俊的男人他的身邊總是有很多女演員
because that s the work he does, and he doesn t get romance. I said, "what do you want?"
;因為他就是幹這個工作的,但他沒有愛情生活.我說,"你想要什麼?"
"Well, I wanna date three women a week."
;"嗯,我想一星期約會三個女人."
"OK, paint yourself with three women and hang it in every corner."
;"那好,你就畫一個你自己和三個女人的畫像並把它掛到房間的每個角落".
Six months later I see him in Europe. I said, "how is your love life?"
;六個月後,我在歐洲遇到他.我說,"你的愛情生活怎樣了呢?"
"Great! They just call me, they all wanna date me." "Because that s your wish."
;"好極了!他們剛剛給我打了電話,想和我約會.";"因為這就是你的願望呀."
"Now I have like three dates a week They re fighting over me." "Good on you."
;"我現在每星期大約有三個約會.他們甚至為了我而互相爭鬥.";"祝賀你(或譯為:幹得好)."
"But I really wanna stabilize it a little bit. I want marriage, and I want romance."
;"但我想穩定下來.我想結婚,也想要浪漫."
"Well paint it." So he painted a beautiful romantic relationship.
"那你就把它畫下來吧.";於是他畫了一個代表美麗浪漫關係的畫.
And a year later he got married. He was very happy.
;一年以後,他結婚了.他非常幸福.
Because he put another wish out but he wished it himself for years.
;因為他發出了另一個願望,他有這個願望已經有好幾年了.
But it did not happen, because his wish could not manifest
;但事情並沒有發生,因為他的願望沒有實現
because the outer level of himself (his house), was just contradicting himself all the time.
;因為他的外在層次上的自我(他的房子)總是和他相矛盾.
So, if you know this knowledge, you should start playing with it.
;因此,如果你知道這個知識,你可以開始利用它.
Inside relationships it s important to first understand who s coming into the relationship.
;在人際關係中,重要的是首先要知道誰在參與進入這個關係中.
And I don t mean about your partner, I mean about you.
;我不是指你的伴侶,我指的是你.
How can you ever expect anyone else to enjoy your company if you don t enjoy your own company?
;你怎麼能指望別人欣賞你的陪伴;而你自己卻不欣賞自己?
And so again, the Law of Attraction, or the secret
;還是以前說過的,吸引力定律(也就是"秘密"),
is about bringing that into your life and you ve gotta get really, really clear.
;會把思想變成現實,你需要非常清楚你在想什麼.
Here s the question I want to ask you to consider:
;有一個問題我想請你認真考慮:
do you treat yourself the way that you want other people to treat you? You become the solution for you.
;你希望別人如何對待你,但你是否是那樣對待你自己呢?;你是你自己的解決方案.
Don t like, "now you own me, and you need to get me more", instead
;不要像這樣,"你欠我的,你應該給我更多",相反的,
give more to yourself. Take time off to give to yourself.
;給你自己更多.抽出時間給你自己.
And in the sense, you feel yourself up to fullness, where now you can overflow and give it.
;也就是說, 先讓自己感到飽滿,;然後你可以將這種飽滿放射出去.
I got into many relationships, expecting my partner to show me my beauty.
;我經歷過好幾次的戀愛關係,每次我總是企望我的伴侶向我展現我自己的美.
I needed to see him showing me my beauty. Because I didn t feel beautiful.
;我需要看到他向我展現我的美.;因為我感不到自己的美.
Because when I was growing up, my "sheroes" were
;因為我從小到大,我的"偶像"們都是
Charlie s Angels, Wonder Woman, and though they were wonderful women
;Charlie的天使們(這是一部電影的名字,參見http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0160127/)神奇女郎(也是電影名)
(Lisa的偶像都是這些影星)
none of them looked like me. It wasn t until I stopped and I fell in love with Lisa,
;這些影星沒有一個長得像我.;直到最後我不再這樣,我愛上Lisa自己,
full lips, round hips, mocha skin, Afro,
;厚嘴唇,圓臀,咖啡色皮膚,非洲髮式,
that the rest of the world began to fall in love with Lisa.
;然後整個世界才開始愛上Lisa.(這裏的that與前面的It wasn t until組合成一句話意思是:直到...才...)
There s something so magnificent about you.
;你是如此的華美!
I have been studying me for 44 years. I wanna kiss myself!
;我研究我自己44年了.我真想親親我自己!
Because, you re gonna get to love yourself. I m not talking about conceit.
;因為,你要愛你自己.我不是說要自負.
I m talking about a healthy respect for yourself. And as you love yourself, you ll love others.
;我是說對自己要有一個健康的尊重.;而且因為你愛自己,你也會愛別人.
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